We found each other and have been in love for many many years. Your post is full of assumptions about what constitutes a "legitimate" relationship," that all women must be looking for future commitments from every man they date, that the married man must be lying to his wife, etc.And......we're far from being the only ones in this situation. You might want to take a trans-cultural look at your own assumptions before laying them out as if they were "the rule" and anything that doesn't fit them is "an exception." this: 1. My dad cheated on my mom (and my brother and I - I look at the whole thing as a betrayl) several times through their marriage. If you meet someone you love more than your spouse, just get divorced, break up, and be with the one you love. Integrity will hurt, but it hurts less in the long run.It happened before we were each separated/divorced. That the children has not to be asked in the school by their classmates and friends? Why should only the mistress/other woman be exposed and being asked always? A mistress also is a daughter of someone, a sister, she also belongs to a family.

I have a very good reason for dating a married man...we're in love. That the wife has not to face questions of her neighbors?I was busy with audits & traveling but finally checked email.He had emailed me several times asking to bring samples by, and then finally lunch.He makes sexual enuendos and flirts with them in front of his wife. The cakeman is also liable to answer back and give explanation of why he does this.When her friends tell her he is disrespecting her, she replies, "oh, this is just him and that's how he's always been". Thanks Selina I met a man about 18 months ago through work @ a yearly conference for schools in our state.